How to Cut Energetic Cords with an Ex (A Step-by-Step Ritual for Closure)
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Psychic Tools December 20, 2023

How to Cut Energetic Cords with an Ex (A Step-by-Step Ritual for Closure)

You blocked his number. You deleted the photos. So why do you still feel him?

Because sex, love, and intimacy create etheric cords. These are invisible energy tubes that connect your chakras to his. Through these cords, you can feel his emotions, and he can drain your energy—even from miles away.

I consulted a Verified Advisor on Keen about energy clearing, and they recommended this simple but powerful Cord Cutting Ritual.

Understanding the Signs

What You Need

  • Two candles (one for you, one for him). black or white work best.
  • A piece of string or twine.
  • Salt (for protection).
  • Scissors or a knife.

The Ritual

  1. Create a Sacred Space: Sprinkle a circle of salt. Light some sage. Sit comfortably.
  2. Bind the Candles: Tie the string around both candles, connecting them. This represents the cord.
  3. Light Them: As they burn, visualize the relationship. The good, the bad, the ugly. Feel it all.
  4. The Severing: When you are ready, take your scissors. Say aloud: "I release you. I release me. I call my energy back. I send your energy back. We are free."
  5. Cut the String: Snip the string between the candles. Watch the flame.

After Care

Let the candles burn down safely. Dispose of the wax separately. Take a salt bath to seal your aura.

Warning: After a cord cutting, the ex often texts. They feel the loss of energy supply. This is a classic sign they are trying to manifest you back. (Read more about signs your ex is manifesting you).

Reclaim your peace. You deserve to be whole.

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